Strengthen Emotional Relationship Father And ChildMay 8th, 2011 | By wownesia | Category: Comunication
A father would better spend his time with work and her career. Sometimes it makes them lose the bond with their children. Lack of time to spend with the children became one of the main factors loosening of the bond of father and son, but his presence and touch you hold an important role in the relationship of parent and child.
Children have sensitive feelings and sensitive. He would feel if you do not really listen to the story. One of the things that a lot of complaining about the children from their father that although their father is in close physically, but in reality her father’s mind and heart was not with them.
Here are some tips that can help you strengthen your emotional relationship with your child:
- Create a schedule with little free time. Make a special schedule that you can spend with your child, for instance during weekends. Fill the schedule. If necessary, enter in your daily agenda. Make sure that on that day you have no other obligations with work. If indeed all of a sudden you have to do something, make a job waiting, and make sure your child is your priority that day.
- Get rid of distractions. Turn off mobile phones and the Internet while you’re spending time with the little guy. Focus your attention on the little guy.
- Focus on the moment. Often times, your brain is hard to turn away from to-do-list your job. However you should try to practice focus and be with your child mentally. When you are suddenly reminded of the work and start thinking why you should spend time with your child when there is that you should do, turn your attention immediately to the moment you’re doing with the little guy. If you want to train the mind, then it will become your habit, even this moment you will be able to enjoy.
- Consider the needs of children. Sometimes, the things you think are not important fact is important for children. Therefore, you should pay more attention to the wishes of children. Listen to every speech. No matter how small it is according to you, it is important your child desires.
- Show your feelings. As parents we are sometimes afraid to show our feelings in children. This is a weakness for each parent. In fact, precisely such attitudes that keep you away from the child emotionally. The touch plays an important role in the relationship of parent and child. The expression of love from your mouth will be more meaningful if accompanied with a warm hug to the little guy. So, do not be ashamed to show your feelings.